once more with feeling...
Apr. 15th, 2002 12:06 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
tiggzthis will be another public entry. why? you ask...because apparently my options were set so the people i referred to in my last entry couldn't respond to my "allegations". it also seems it's been quite the debate with a few other people. some of whom are on my friends list and most of whom are not.
let me clarify why i made that and this entry public. it's because i wanted to make you all aware of the problems i had with the way you have handled things. let me direct this at someone specific. so... nasagrl this is for you. you say you didn't call Cashmere any names. is this correct? i think referring to someone as childish for airing their feelings is calling someone a name. maybe your definition is different than my own. you didn't outwardly call Cashmere two-faced, however, it was inferred by your posts. you told her she should have the courage to tell Allyson to her face her problems with her. i think she did just that at the Beta. she told her how her comments were making her feel. you said yourself you did not scroll the full discussion, so it's obvious you missed that part.
i agree that belmont came at you full force for coming into Cash's journal and basically berating her for posting her feelings. however, we have both seen people posting to people to make them feel small or that there problems aren't worth hearing. we're tired of it. we're tired of that mentality. you say you aren't a part of that mentality, but you have already shown that you are. your latest lj posts are indicative of this. you got pleasure from the fact that Cash deleted her journal. you and she did come to some sort of an agreement about the entries and have called a cease fire. however, i'm still unhappy with the current state of events.
people not feeling comfortable enough to rant in their own journals is wrong. if someone came into my journal and has, and told me that i was wrong for posting my feelings, you can bet your ass i'd tell them where to go and have. that's basically what it boiled down to.
you felt that you had the right to tell her that she didn't know Allyson well enough to call her a bitch in her lj. well excuse me while i laugh. i suppose you've never ranted about someone else. do you think that because no one jumped to that person's defence that it was okay to rant about them? it seems like a bit of a skewed logic to me.
now again back to why i've made this public. it's mostly because when i don't like the way things are going or if i don't like the way someone is treating me or the people i care about, i'm going to call them on it. that's what it boils down to. i'm fully expecting that you will now, since you can post in here, come in here with some witty comment that you believe will acquit you of all the things you've said and continue to say. *shrug* that's your business. i'm just telling the situation as i see it. oh and for your information i read the exchanges and i also have it bookmarked. so don't think you can come in here and tell me that i don't know what was said.
also, one more thing....amberlynne, i believe your true colors were finally shown to me. i will be removing you from my friends list.
let me clarify why i made that and this entry public. it's because i wanted to make you all aware of the problems i had with the way you have handled things. let me direct this at someone specific. so... nasagrl this is for you. you say you didn't call Cashmere any names. is this correct? i think referring to someone as childish for airing their feelings is calling someone a name. maybe your definition is different than my own. you didn't outwardly call Cashmere two-faced, however, it was inferred by your posts. you told her she should have the courage to tell Allyson to her face her problems with her. i think she did just that at the Beta. she told her how her comments were making her feel. you said yourself you did not scroll the full discussion, so it's obvious you missed that part.
i agree that belmont came at you full force for coming into Cash's journal and basically berating her for posting her feelings. however, we have both seen people posting to people to make them feel small or that there problems aren't worth hearing. we're tired of it. we're tired of that mentality. you say you aren't a part of that mentality, but you have already shown that you are. your latest lj posts are indicative of this. you got pleasure from the fact that Cash deleted her journal. you and she did come to some sort of an agreement about the entries and have called a cease fire. however, i'm still unhappy with the current state of events.
people not feeling comfortable enough to rant in their own journals is wrong. if someone came into my journal and has, and told me that i was wrong for posting my feelings, you can bet your ass i'd tell them where to go and have. that's basically what it boiled down to.
you felt that you had the right to tell her that she didn't know Allyson well enough to call her a bitch in her lj. well excuse me while i laugh. i suppose you've never ranted about someone else. do you think that because no one jumped to that person's defence that it was okay to rant about them? it seems like a bit of a skewed logic to me.
now again back to why i've made this public. it's mostly because when i don't like the way things are going or if i don't like the way someone is treating me or the people i care about, i'm going to call them on it. that's what it boils down to. i'm fully expecting that you will now, since you can post in here, come in here with some witty comment that you believe will acquit you of all the things you've said and continue to say. *shrug* that's your business. i'm just telling the situation as i see it. oh and for your information i read the exchanges and i also have it bookmarked. so don't think you can come in here and tell me that i don't know what was said.
also, one more thing....amberlynne, i believe your true colors were finally shown to me. i will be removing you from my friends list.
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Date: 2002-04-15 11:19 am (UTC)i suppose you've never ranted about someone else.
I agree. She's being a hypocrite there. NO ONE can say they've never ranted about someone. It's hard NOT to. I've done it and I know Tiggs' has.
But I'm shutting up now cuz I don't know the whole story.
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Date: 2002-04-15 12:49 pm (UTC)I also don't think that that person should have deleted their journal just because of a few jerks - she's letting them win. No one should be pressured into deleting their thoughts just because of a bunch of immature people.
Whoever did this to the person whose journal is now deleted (Cashmere's, I believe?), I'm mentally glaring at you right now.