speaking of childish behaviour...

[tiggz]

i love when people comment on things when they really have no business doing so. i also love when people are so obviously biased and really have no business commenting on things that don't concern them.

my absolute favorite thing? people who attempt to ruin friendships because they feel threatened.

yep. love all of those things.

going to bed now. in the words of jaye tyler, "bite me".

Comments

[denisef.livejournal.com]

Gah! Do I even want to know? E me if you need to. {{{hugs}}}

[paksenarrion2.livejournal.com]

Ick.

Those people suck. Need me to borrow kaymyth's shrimp fork and go to work??

[kaymyth.livejournal.com]

You can use the grapefruit spoon, too. They work well in tandem.

[chi2cali.livejournal.com]

OH!!! Thats an awesome idea!!!! Do you have another utensil I could use perhaps?

This person pissed me off as well, and considering I've never met them? It's a small feat in and of itself since I'm not one who gets "angry". Typically that is. ;-)

*smooochies*

[paksenarrion2.livejournal.com]

Hee and I don't even have a clue who it is. But they made tiggz mad and that is worthy of pissed offness on my part.

*smoooochies* to all three of you.

[kaymyth.livejournal.com]

I bequeath unto you the Butter Knife. Thus completes the circle of the Cutlery of DoOm!

Make this idiot bleed from their spleeeeeeeeeen...

[foxant10.livejournal.com]

does this have something to do with debbie's blog? i'm just wondering because if it does, it's SO not about you or anyone from my circle. that was about a "friend" of hers whom she had to have a "sit down" with yesterday. so don't feel guilty. so not about you!

[tiggz.livejournal.com]

that is the lamest of lame excuses and you'll have to excuse me if i find it hard to believe.

it's not like she hasn't stuck her nose in where it doesn't belong before either.

[foxant10.livejournal.com]

you may see it as an excuse, but it's the truth. all i can say is that you may se that she's stuck her nose in before but this isn't one of those times. she's got other things going on in her life right now.

i can't make you believe one thing over another. all i can do is give you the facts as i know them.

[tiggz.livejournal.com]

wow...so that condescending attitude is contagious, isn't it?

she has other things going on in her life right now? well...good for her! so does every other person in the world.

i am SO fed up with all of this. i thought our emailing was genuinely working toward talking things through, but when i saw that post by her last night, i saw red. you can claim it's about something else, but the wording of it leads me to believe otherwise.

if i can't trust you and can't trust that things that are said between us(about us) isn't getting back to her through the "poor anthony" filter, then i don't see this progressing at all.

i'm really starting to understand why you(general and specific you) aren't capable of staying friends with exes.

[foxant10.livejournal.com]

dude! what condescending attitude? i was being upfront and taking any emotion that i may have out of it.

i've always said that the girlfriend gets everything unfiltered. i told you that in emails last night and you knew that from our relationship. there is no "poor anthony" filter.

and her entry? i'm guessing it was the first paragraph where she said the following:

When will people stop playing the blame game and be accountable for their own actions? There is no innocent side in any argument. It all just depends on the angle you are viewing it from. Swallow your pride people and just be friends.

she was talking about a friend of hers who was trying to manipulate her and use her. it was a friendship that she's had for a while and it pissed her off that this person did what they did and continues to refuse to see what they're doing. plus, i was right and told her this using was happening so i'm sure it ticks her off some more that she didn't see it coming. it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with this "friend" of hers.

but i have to ask why are you reading her blog? i mean you don't know each other and it just seems like you don't even want to get to know her so why do it?

considering there is no "poor anthony" filter, do you want me to keep secrets from my significant other? you know how i feel about that when we went through it.

[tiggz.livejournal.com]

i. am. done.

when you can pull your head out of your ass and realize that friends are just as important as a significant other, you let me know. until then i'm done discussing this crap with you. i'm tired of the unneeded stress our interactions bring me.

so take care. you and debbie have a good life.

[foxant10.livejournal.com]

you always consider how it affects you. what about me? you're taking it all from your perspective and only your perspective but friendship, as i said in email, is a two way street. this is all because you can't even put yourself in my shoes or see how things are affecting me. it's about how it's affecting you and you only. remember my email? i asked if you're willing to see things from my side? i asked and you said that you are listening but you don't easily forgive and forget how you've been treated. how about how i've been treated? how about all those times you were needed and did nothing but i still kept going back because that's what friends do. and honestly, i don't know why you were reading debbie's blog when you don't consider her a friend or even tried to consider her a friend. that comment had nothing to do with you but you took it as such. her blog is about what's going on in her immediate life and not passive aggressive comments to things going on in mine.

you're quick to move on when things don't go your way. this is life. things never go our way but we move, adapt and change. friendships never stay the same. they change and so we have to change to or else the friendship dies. i trying to work it out with you but you won't listen to anything i say because it doesn't fit with you. c'mon! you know friendships are always works in progress and there is never a finished product. but this is your stance. i'm sorry that's how you feel. honestly, i'm sorry.

[smashed-digital.livejournal.com]

honestly? would you be offended if i took you off my friends list? we don't even talk anymore

[tiggz.livejournal.com]

nope. go for it.

[foxant10.livejournal.com]

i'm sorry you're crushed. i am too. but i won't ask our mutual friends about stuff you wrote in your journal.